Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Someone special

mk tan: I will try my best to update and upload photographs of our gathering. But, most of the gathering that I go will be only among girls. Hehe.

Canice: I don't know how to create a chatter box. If got, I don't think I will chat much because I only visit my blog when I want to update. Haha.
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This entry is dedicated to my best buddy in the world. We've been really close together since Standard 6. She is the sweetest, most considerate, fierce(depends on the situation.. hehe), girlish-tomboyish, sincere... and a lot more. Her name is Wai Leng. Today is her 22nd birthday. I really wish that I could be just next to her now and just spend one whole day with her since it's her birthday. But, I have to attend classes, do my final year project, study and do assignment. Luckily, me and PuiC planned a surprise birthday celebration for her among our close friends. Although it is not our initial plan, but it still went on smoothly. I really hope that you enjoy that night as much as I do.

Looking back, we've been friends for 11 years. We've been through ups and downs together. We had arguement and I have to say it's hard not talking to you. We sat together since form 2 and you were always there for me no matter what. You help me with my homework and revision. You witnessed my first relationship and the break up. You were always there when something happened to me, be it good or bad. I still remember your first surprise birthday party at Mei Yee's house.


This is the home-made birthday cake by Rachel. I think you still remember the moment when we jump out from our hiding place and shout "SURPRISE!!!". But too bad you noticed a pair of sandals on the front door when you enter Mei Yee's house. You somehow knew that there was something wrong. Hehe.

I can't remember when we start calling each other Lou Gong and Lou Poh... but we really did called each other that in front of other people (tak tahu malu langsung...) and we still do, even till now... and I hope till forever we will continue call each other that way.

After form 5, I parted from the comfortable sight of you. Attending class was not as fun and enjoyable as it used to be. I really like going to school during our secondary school because I know you will be there. We had a great time together even though during form 5, we have to do a lot of Additional Mathematics questions from our tuition. But it was still fun and happy moments. When I take Pre U and you went to form 6, going to school was not anymore. I have no one close to share my problem whenever I faced one. No one to share food with me. It was really hard. But you shifted to TARC with the others to study form 6. We're in the same college again. Although I don't get to see you often due to our different timetable, but knowing you are in a place same as mine somehow cheer me up. You still remember that there was once when I called you and crying at the same time? The sight of you rushing out from the admin block to find me made me cried even more. First, it's because I'm scared to shit that time and second, I'm so happy that you are by my side when I needed you most. And you came really quick that time. I'm really touched and grateful. (you even save me the shame of walking arond TARC crying... haha).



After college, we were separated again. This time, even though we're studying in the same university but we're in different campus. But our bond grew stronger and closer as we grew up. Maybe we understand each other more and more. It's weird because we don't see each other much but we still are very very close. We attended the UTAR Ball together with other Soh Pohz and you really look very pretty that night. (Peeweeettt)



This is us during PK's birthday. We nearly have the same hairstyle back then but it's not planned at all. We didn't planned to have our hair this way, didn't planned what style earlier together, didn't went to the same hair saloon... but somehow we nearly have the same hairstyle. Haha.






These are all the special moments that we've been through. Whenever I looked back at all these photographs, it really felt like yesterday when we took the photographs together.
I don't have a chance to tell you how much you meant to me. You are really one of the most people in my life. I envied you last time because you can listen to people's problem and give appropriate advise/opinion but I never can do that. All I can do is just listen and listen. That is what made you special. I really am thankful that I met you. You will always be the first person I will go to if I have any dilemma/problem. I can pour my heart out without hesitating in front of you because I know you understand me more than anybody else in this world.
Thank you...
for being my best friend in the whole world
for being there for me when I needed you the most and never failed even once to do so
for being so nice and mean (when necessary) to me
for being so patient on me
for being so caring to me
for being tough on me so I would grow up and be independent
for understanding what I am trying to say when no one else understand a single word
for understanding what I am trying to say while laughing at the same time
for understanding what I am trying to say even before I open my mouth
for understanding what I am trying to say even though I don't know what I am trying to say
for never giving up on me when I seemed hopeless
for forgiving me everytime I did something wrong
for forgiving me everytime I say sorry
for forgiving me even though I didn't say sorry
for forgiving me even though I refused to say sorry
for accompany me to watch ghost movie
for accompany me doing something stupid/humiliating in the public
for completing my sentence all the time
for laughing with me even though it's not funny
for listening to me no matter how many times I've repeated it
for listening to me no matter what time it is, wherever you are
for listening to me even though you don't understand
for listening to me even though you are tired/busy
for showing me what kind of world I am in
for tolerating my princess attitude
for understanding me so much and even more than I do myself
for guiding me into making the best decision
for supporting me
for cheering me up when I'm down
for lending me your comfortable shoulder when I need to rest my head and cry my heart out
for hugging and kissing me on special occasion
for accepting me of who I am
for telling me the truth even if it hurts and I don't want to listen but you will somehow force yourself through
for telling me that I am not always right
for taking a photo of my butt when I'm sleeping
for molesting me whenever you feel like even though it's in public
and the most important,
Thank you for being Wai Leng.
I know that you are in a hard time now. I will always be by your side to help you whenever I can. I promised you that I will always be by your side no matter what happens. I just want you to know that no matter what happen, I will always be right behind you giving you support. Even if in this world nobody support you, I will always do no matter what it is (let's rob the bank together la....). Just remember that I am always here. Just here. For you.
I want to tell you that I love you very very much and I hope that we will be friends till we are married and have children together. Your son/daughter will marry my son/daughter. Your grandchildren will marry my grandchildren. Haha. I know I'm thinking wayyyyyy too far into the future but .....you get what I mean. Happy birthday once again. Hope that what you wished for before you blew out the candle last Friday will come true.

Oh yeah, in case you are wondering who Wai Leng is... these are a photograph of her....
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
~BuHBaI~

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

OMG !!!! Why u put those "extraordinary" photos? I share my recent photos to u..which is more...leng..u know? muahahha..
anyway...ur blog do made me nearly cry. Huhuhuhu..too sweet ady~ even my tunnie also din said all those. Sob sob..thanx ya alots. For sure will be frenz always till duno when. haha. Muakkkss~~ thanks ya

Anonymous said...

it's really freaking nice dedication..haha..ur other gals would be jealousing rite now..wahahahaha

-cg-

Clarissa said...

it's so so so touching!